With the mixer on low, add the flour and cocoa mixture a little at a time in alternating batches, starting and ending with the flour. Beat until just combined.
Divide batter among the 3 prepared pans, smooth tops with an offset spatula and bake for about 20 minutes or until a toothpick inserted into the centre comes out clean. Be careful not to over bake. Sit pans on wire racks to cool for 15 minutes, then turn out cakes onto the wire racks to cool completely. Trim tops of cake layers to level before frosting.
For the frosting:
In a small bowl, whisk together the cocoa powder and warm water until all of the cocoa is dissolved.
1/2 cup plus 1 Tbsp unsweetened cocoa, 1/2 cup plus 1 Tbsp warm water
Using an electric mixer, beat butter, sugar and salt until pale and fluffy.
1 & 1/2 cups unsalted butter, 3/4 cup powdered sugar, 1 tsp salt
Slowly beat in melted chocolate and then cocoa solution until smooth and what you'll get is a lovely dark, glossy and rich chocolate frosting. It will be hard not to put your face in the bowl.
Spread about 1/3 of frosting between each layer and spread the remainder of the frosting on top and sides of cake.
Notes
I had made my cake the day before and refrigerated it overnight, so the frosting had hardened and lightened up as you can see in the initial pictures. I took the cake out just before my guests started to arrive and by the time the it was ready to be served after dinner, the frosting softened back to its original dark and glossy form.